This dating/relationship thing is really baffling. A thought just occurred to me today on how fucked up the whole system really is. A lot of my single friends around me are worried about not finding a soul mate/partner/boyfriend any time in the near future because there are no real opportunities to meet new eligible bachelors that meet our crazy and unattainable standards. ”I hope I don’t need to resort to online dating!” Well, I don’t know I’ve just been beginning to feel so helpless in this lifelong quest for a perfect lover. What we really need to do is trust in God and leave it up to him to bring along this perfect dude or help us to be go-getters.
Why should it be the women sitting around like lame ducks waiting for a handsome Prince Charming to sweep them off their feet? Girls accuse men of being passive but women are equally at fault. Give guys the right signals and play hard to get to a CERTAIN EXTENT and stop acting like you are the shit. And also, guys need to step it up and go for the girls that they feel interested in and not hold back so much because honestly, the power lies in the men. A relationship is pretty much determined by whether or not the guy likes the girl enough to make a move.